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Recent updates (listed here in order added)
- NEW to MenPlayLA: Sat May 27 “May I Cum”
- Sat June 17 SoCalGroupTime Presents TWO parties: Duarte Saturday Afternoon Piggy Warehouse Groups
- SoCal GroupTime has added 4 events. Two on June 1, and two on June 4.
- Aug 21-28 CMEN West Coast Gathering
Notice...
None of the events listed anywhere on this website are MenPlayLA's events. MenPlayLA does not organize, plan or work for these events, nor invite anyone to any of them. They are listed here as a convenience to you. MenPlayLA does not tolerate or post events promoting or engaging in prostitution, sex trafficking, illegal drug use, or any other illegal activity. If you suspect or know that any of the events on this page promote or engage in these or any other illegal activity, please notify immediately to MenPlayLA@hotmail.com. The hosts/organizers of these events are solely responsible for the content provided in their listings and for the events themselves and for their venues. MenPlayLA urges you to stay safe, alert, sane and sober at any party. Leave an event if you are not comfortable or if something doesn't seem right. Please see the Attending an All-Male Party tab for more about this and the Your Health & Safety tab to find community resources that can help you.
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The Calendar
Each month's events are deleted at the end of that month.
MAY 2023
Tues May 2
The LASpot presents: Magnum X Tuesday
9:00 pm - 2:00 am
$20 thereafter
Private location in South LA
theLASpot.com
A sex party for men of color with select, fit bodies. Not a social party, strictly action.
Thurs May 4
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
Seven Seven Three Five Densmore Ave. Van Nuys Upstairs in the white and green stripe building.
$20 cash only. Students 18+ with ID $10.
Mmupp.weebly.com
Our events are open to men of all ages, shapes and sizes. It is a mixed crowd, everyone is welcome! Free clothes check. Free snacks and drinks. (No alcohol). Enjoy a relaxed no pressure situation, & meet up other like-minded people. Plenty of safe parking available. We hope to see you at the private party!
Fri May 5
CumUnion Los Angeles Party
8:00 pm – 1:00 am
Sanctuary Studios new location: 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles. Street Parking
Tickets: cumunionla.com/events/52291
$30 Online for Members
$35 for Non-Members (Cash or Card at door are ok)
This is a great, fun, no attitude party! Feel the beats while you slide into the large rooms and enjoy the event. Be sure to arrive early for all the hot action. This is an 18+ Event! ID required to enter. Entry includes free clothes check and gives you access to multiple large play rooms.
Fri May 5
Blackout Social
11:00 pm - 5:00 am
Los Angeles (near Century & Vermont)
$20
blackoutsocial.com
A private butt-naked event with a chill, laid-back vibe for Black men. Guests fully undress at the door. Clothing is bagged, labeled, and placed in a secure area. No cell phones allowed. Condoms and lube provided. Open bar.
Fri May 5
The LASpot presents: Magnum X Friday
11:00 pm - 5:00 am
$20 all night
Private location in South LA
theLASpot.com
A sex party for men of color with select, fit bodies. Not a social party, strictly action.
Sat May 6
Moonburn All-Male Spank Party
Noon - 5:00 pm
North Hollywood
$15 ($10 if you are a Threshold member)
email for more info: lamoonburn@aol.com
The Moonburn Assn. (Hosted by Threshold) hosts monthly all-male spanking parties, the first Sat of every month. We have been having M/M spank parties for more than 25 years! We usually have more than 50 guys show up - guys of all ages, sizes, backgrounds, sexual orientations and levels of experience. Some come to spank, some come to get spanked, some come to watch and some come to meet other guys to arrange private sessions. Soft drinks, water, snacks served.
Sat May 6
TeamPig's Puerco de Mayo
3:00 pm - 10:00 pm
1440 Silver Lake Blvd
Tickets: $40 online only at party.teampig.us
No tickets at the door. You MUST purchase in advance online.
21 and older. MEN ONLY. Wristband for re-entry and clothes check. FREE food, drinks, and snacks. Full bar with bartenders. Social area, dungeon and mazes – slings – benches – glory holes – multiple themed play areas. Usually 400+ men attend – be prepared for a crowd.
- Webmaster's notes: street parking on weekends in Silver Lake is the WORST! Take Uber/Lyft or be prepared to spend a half hour looking for parking then walking a mile. I'm serious.
- Team Pig parties are as much fun for socializing and making new friends as they are for fucking.
Sat May 6th
Unload Con Chulos
8:00 pm-4:00 am
CCBC Resort in the Palm Springs area. 68300 Gay Resort Dr Cathedral City
Night passes $40
Are you ready to get on your knees and obey? Will you beg to be used like a good boy? Ey Chulos! Chulos hosted by Victor Ongpin, Mr. Sister Leather 2023, James Holjes, Mr. Palm Springs Leather 2023 and of course PiGBoss. Enjoy the kinky desert heat with a blow buddy and your hosts while exploring the dark corners and turns of this clothing-optional resort where pigs can play... and have it their way! Oink! A portion of the proceeds will benefit Team Beefcake riding in the AIDS Lifecycle.
Sun May 7
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Seven Seven Three Five Densmore Ave. Van Nuys upstairs in the white and green stripe building.
$20 cash only. Students 18+ with ID $10.
Mmupp.weebly.com
Our events are open to men of all ages, shapes and sizes. It is a mixed crowd, everyone is welcome! Free clothes check. Free snacks and drinks. (No alcohol). Enjoy a relaxed no pressure situation, & meet up other like-minded people. Plenty of safe parking available. We hope to see you at the private party!
Tues May 9
The LASpot presents: Magnum X Tuesday
9:00 pm - 2:00 am
(see details under May 2)
Wed May 10
SoCalGroupTime Presents: Pomona Men's Group
12:00 pm - 3:00 pm
$21.00 pre-payment (via PayPal link when you RSVP)
General info: www.socalgrouptime.com
RSVP Link for Mmmbers: socalgrouptime.com/event/pomona-lunch-group-wednesday-may-10-noon-til-3pm
Email: admin@socalgrouptime.com
Lunch/afternoon group for guys in the IE/Pomona area - hosted at a private home with easy access and parking. A great mix of guys - married/bi/DL/Gay who enjoy the company of other like-minded guys in an easygoing environment. Safer and bareback play, depending on your taste, just let your limits be known with your play buds. Rubbers, lubes, bottled water, and small clean-up towels will be provided. Space will be limited to 35 guys.
Thurs May 11
Can You Knot?
7:00pm-11:00pm Last entry 9:00pm
West Hollywood
$30 Purchased online until 9pm; No tickets sold at the door!
linktr.ee/CanYouKnot
WeHo's premiere rope play party for men. MEET fellow kinksters. LEARN rope skills. TIE up a friend. PLAY with someone new. Second Thursday of every month at a local private venue.
Thurs May 11
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under May 4)
Fri May 12
The LASpot presents: Magnum X Friday
11:00 pm - 5:00 am
(see details under May 5)
Sat May 13
SoCa Bondage Club Play Party
1:00 pm - 5:00 pm
910 N La Cienega Blvd, Los Angeles
$20 for members of SoCal Mens Bondage, $25 for Non-Members
www.SoCaBondage.com
Email: socabc@gmail.com
We have monthly BDSM parties with all kinds of kink. Tie up a HOT guy and do whatever you want with him, as long it is safe, sane and consensual! We provide a safe space to explore your fantasies. ALL limits are respected. We still encourage sex to be part of a BDSM scene, and safer sex is strongly encouraged to prevent the spread of STD's.
Sat May 13
Men's Meat Up Saturday Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Seven Seven Three Five Densmore Ave. Van Nuys upstairs in the white and green stripe building.
$20 cash only. Students 18+ with ID $10.
Mmupp.weebly.com
Our events are open to men of all ages, shapes and sizes. It is a mixed crowd, everyone is welcome! Free clothes check. Free snacks and drinks. (No alcohol). Enjoy a relaxed no pressure situation, & meet up other like-minded people. Plenty of safe parking available. We hope to see you at the private party!
Sat May 13
Blackout Social: Nightcrawlers
11:00 pm - 4:00 am
Los Angeles (near Century & Vermont)
$20
blackoutsocial.com
A private, underwear-optional event with a chill, laid-back vibe for Black men. Guests undress at the door. Clothing is bagged, labeled, and placed in a secure area. No cell phones allowed. Condoms and lube provided. Open bar.
Sun May 14
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under May 7)
Tues May 16
The LASpot presents: Magnum X Tuesday
9:00 pm - 2:00 am
(see details under May 2)
Thurs May 18
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under May 4)
Fri May 19
DenLA: Juicy
10:00 pm - 4:00 am
Sanctuary Studios' NEW location: 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles
$40 includes open bar
DenLAPresents.com
New venue in a downtown LA warehouse. Extended hours! DenLA is LA's hottest, exclusive, private, Euro-style dance and play party just for men. Where you can throw on your hottest gear, dance to the sickest beats and have an awesome time playing in the backrooms, beds, and slings with no holds barred sex and camaradarie. Clothes check available. DJ in the house!
Fri May 19
The LASpot presents: Magnum X Friday
11:00 pm - 5:00 am
(see details under May 5)
Fri May 19
Blackout Social
11:00 pm - 5:00 am
(see details under May 5)
Sat May 20
Avatar Boot Camp (2 sessions)
Flogging 12:30 pm - 3:30 pm
Play Party Etiquette & Negotiation 4:00 pm - 5:30 pm
MCC in the Valley
Flogging: $30, Etiquette: $20
Tickets eventbrite.com/cc/avatar-boot-camp-abc-classes-2107359
The flogging class will cover basics, safety, psychology and philosophy with a focus on the experiences of pleasure and pain that you can create at increasing levels of intensity. Prior experience with flogging is not required, but may be helpful. The Etiquette program will discuss basics of negotation, with a focus on encounters with a partner you've just met at the play event, bar, etc. We will have role-play negotiation scenarios that will occur so you will find out what works best for you in a safe environment!
Sun May 21
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under May 7)
Tues May 23
The LASpot presents: Magnum X Tuesday
9:00 pm - 2:00 am
(see details under May 2)
Thurs May 25
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under May 4)
Fri May 26
The LASpot presents: Magnum X Friday
11:00 pm - 5:00 am
(see details under May 5)
Sat May 27
“May I Cum”
10:00 pm -4:00 am
DTLA: Loft (The Nook Inc. L.A.)
Tickets: $20 in advance $25 at the Door
Cash App, Zelle, Apple Pay and cash at the door.
TheNookIncLA@gmail.com
Instagram: The_Nook_Inc
Twitter: @TheNookIncLA
Our events are open to men from ages 21-45. We are looking for sexy, fit and good looking guys. We tend to draw a very diverse group of men. Please email pictures for consideration. We do offer a free clothes check and open bar. The Nook is a safe space created for gay/bi men to fulfill their sexual pleasures, fantasies, and desires.
Sat May 27
Blackout Social: Nightcrawlers
11:00 pm - 4:00 am
(see details under May 13)
Sun May 28
Red Hanky Club's A FFun Event for Men (fisting)
5:00 pm - 9:00 pm. Door close 6:45 pm
Sanctuary Studios NEW location: 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles
RedHankyClub.com
Bring a towel, your items needed for play, make sure to come prepped & ready to play! This event is 18+ (ID REQUIRED). Men only. If you think you might need to touch up for play please bring your own shower nozzle or bulb. After all we ask you to come prepped to play, we don't want people coming who need to fully prep we will ask you to head home to get ready... so please come prepared. We have limited shower space & want to give everyone the opportunity to play. We provide: pads, paper towels, water, soft drinks. A smoking patio is available for you. (Smoking is allowed OUTSIDE only) it is in an enclosed parking lot. Again: BRING YOUR OWN LUBE along with a towel.
Sun May 28
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under May 7)
Tues May 30
The LASpot presents: Magnum X Tuesday
9:00 pm - 2:00 am
(see details under May 2)
JUNE 2023
Thurs June 1
SoCalGroupTime Presents: Anaheim Lunch Group
1:00 pm - 3:30 pm
$22.00 pre-payment - PayPal Link when you RSVP
www.socalgrouptime.com
Email: admin@socalgrouptime.com
Monthly group hosted at a hotel in Anaheim with easy parking. Come enjoy the hot play in a hotel suite with like-minded guys, premium lubes, rubbers, small clean-up towels, and bottled water provided. Nice mix of ethnicities, ages, and body types. Low attitude and lots of fun. What happens here stays here! This group is open to BB and safe(r) play. All guys are welcome but space is limited to 25 guys.
Thurs June 1
SoCalGroupTime Presents: Anaheim Evening Group
6.30 pm - 9.00pm
$22.00 pre-payment - PayPal Link when you RSVP
www.socalgrouptime.com
Email: admin@socalgrouptime.com
Monthly group hosted at a hotel in Anaheim with easy parking. Come enjoy the hot play in a hotel suite with like-minded guys, premium lubes, rubbers, small clean-up towels, and bottled water provided. Nice mix of ethnicities, ages, and body types. Low attitude and lots of fun. What happens here stays here! This group is open to BB and safe(r) play. All guys are welcome but space is limited to 25 guys.
Thurs June 1
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
Seven Seven Three Five Densmore Ave. Van Nuys Upstairs in the white and green stripe building.
$20 cash only. Students 18+ with ID $10.
Mmupp.weebly.com
Our events are open to men of all ages, shapes and sizes. It is a mixed crowd, everyone is welcome! Free clothes check. Free snacks and drinks. (No alcohol). Enjoy a relaxed no pressure situation, & meet up other like-minded people. Plenty of safe parking available. We hope to see you at the private party!
Fri June 2
The LASpot presents: Magnum X Friday
11:00 pm - 5:00 am
$20 all night
Private location in South LA
theLASpot.com
A sex party for men of color with select, fit bodies. Not a social party, strictly action.
Sat June 3
Moonburn All-Male Spank Party
Noon - 5:00 pm
North Hollywood
$15 ($10 if you are a Threshold member)
email for more info: lamoonburn@aol.com
The Moonburn Assn. (Hosted by Threshold) hosts monthly all-male spanking parties, the first Sat of every month. We have been having M/M spank parties for more than 25 years! We usually have more than 50 guys show up - guys of all ages, sizes, backgrounds, sexual orientations and levels of experience. Some come to spank, some come to get spanked, some come to watch and some come to meet other guys to arrange private sessions. Soft drinks, water, snacks served.
Sun June 4
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Seven Seven Three Five Densmore Ave. Van Nuys upstairs in the white and green stripe building.
$20 cash only. Students 18+ with ID $10.
Mmupp.weebly.com
Our events are open to men of all ages, shapes and sizes. It is a mixed crowd, everyone is welcome! Free clothes check. Free snacks and drinks. (No alcohol). Enjoy a relaxed no pressure situation, & meet up other like-minded people. Plenty of safe parking available. We hope to see you at the private party!
Sun June 4
SoCalGroupTime Presents: Monrovia Hotel Sunday Afternoon Anything Goes Group
3:00 pm - 6:00 pm
Cost $22.00 - Prepay (PayPal)
www.socalgrouptime.com
Email: admin@socalgrouptime.com
This SGV group is a HOT time! Mix of BB and safer sex depending on your preference - in a judgment-free zone with a wide variety of guys - all sizes, types, races, and preferences are welcome. October had a nice mix of bi, married and DL guys along with their admirers! Low on attitude and high on fun - no drugs, booze or smoking please - poppers ok. Bottled water, small clean-up towels, premium lubes, and condoms will be provided. Free/easy parking.
Sun June 4
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Seven Seven Three Five Densmore Ave. Van Nuys upstairs in the white and green stripe building.
$20 cash only. Students 18+ with ID $10.
Mmupp.weebly.com
Our events are open to men of all ages, shapes and sizes. It is a mixed crowd, everyone is welcome! Free clothes check. Free snacks and drinks. (No alcohol). Enjoy a relaxed no pressure situation, & meet up other like-minded people. Plenty of safe parking available. We hope to see you at the private party!
Sun June 4
SoCalGroupTime Presents: Bate It! Monrovia Bator Group!
7:00 pm - 9:30 pm
Monrovia Hotel
Cost $15.00 - Non-refundable donation through Paypal
www.socalgrouptime.com
Email: admin@socalgrouptime.com
This SGV BATOR group is growing by the month with a chill vibe for everyone into bating! Mix of guys who enjoy greasing up and stroking together - poppers ok. Small clean-up towel and stroke cream will be provided. Free/easy parking. Currently vaccinated guys only until further notice. Space is limited to 18 guys for this group.
Tues June 6
The LASpot presents: Magnum X Tuesday
9:00 pm - 2:00 am
$20 thereafter
Private location in South LA
theLASpot.com
A sex party for men of color with select, fit bodies. Not a social party, strictly action.
Thurs June 8
Can You Knot?
7:00pm-11:00pm Last entry 9:00pm
West Hollywood
$30 Purchased online until 9pm; No tickets sold at the door!
linktr.ee/CanYouKnot
WeHo's premiere rope play party for men. MEET fellow kinksters. LEARN rope skills. TIE up a friend. PLAY with someone new. Second Thursday of every month at a local private venue.
Thurs June 8
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under June 1)
Fri June 9
The LASpot presents: Magnum X Friday
11:00 pm - 5:00 am
(see details under Fri June 2)
Sat June 10
Men's Meat Up Saturday Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Seven Seven Three Five Densmore Ave. Van Nuys upstairs in the white and green stripe building.
$20 cash only. Students 18+ with ID $10.
Mmupp.weebly.com
Our events are open to men of all ages, shapes and sizes. It is a mixed crowd, everyone is welcome! Free clothes check. Free snacks and drinks. (No alcohol). Enjoy a relaxed no pressure situation, & meet up other like-minded people. Plenty of safe parking available. We hope to see you at the private party!
Sun June 11
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under June 4)
Tues June 13
The LASpot presents: Magnum X Tuesday
9:00 pm - 2:00 am
(see details under June 6)
Thurs June 15
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under June 1)
Fri June 16
The LASpot presents: Magnum X Friday
11:00 pm - 5:00 am
(see details under June 2)
Sat June 17
SoCalGroupTime Presents TWO parties:
Duarte Saturday Afternoon Piggy Warehouse Groups
2:00 pm – 6:00 pm (please arrive between 2:00 pm and 5:00 pm)
Afternoon event capacity: 80 guests
socalgrouptime.com/event/duarte-warehouse-group-afternoon-12-6pm-saturday-june-17/
8:00 pm - midnight (please arrive between 8:00 pm and 11:00 pm)
Evening event capacity: 200 guests
socalgrouptime.com/event/duarte-sgv-warehouse-event-saturday-evening-june-17/
Duarte
The first 50 tickets $30; next 50 tickets $35; the final 100 tickets $40. A few spaces will be reserved for day of (payment at the door) for $40. (membership not required) - Any bookings without the payment will automatically be ineligible. Please wait for the PayPal page to autogenerate.
RSVP and payment at www.socalgrouptime.com
Last month was SO HOT we decided to do it again! We exceeded expectations and it was a complete sell out! More slings, more fuck benches, more rim seats, more lounge areas, more EVERYTHING. Saturday fun for married/bi/DL & gay guys who enjoy bonding in a new location for SoCal Grouptime. Large capacity space for group play. 3 playrooms, bathrooms, porn, slings, fuck benches and a large play mattress area for group fun at an industrial site in Duarte within 2 minutes from the 210 freeway. Free and easy parking. Clothes check bags, bottled water, premium lubes, rubbers (for those who use them – no judgement either way), small clean-up towels and snacks will be provided. An easily accessible location for guys in the SFV, SGV and Inland Empire areas. Only 30 minutes from downtown LA. Drop-in for an hour or stay the whole time – afternoon capacity for up to 80 guys; evening capacity for up to 200 guys. No alcohol/PNP; poppers OK.
Sun June 18
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under June 4)
Tues June 20
The LASpot presents: Magnum X Tuesday
9:00 pm - 2:00 am
(see details under June 6)
Thurs June 22
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under June 1)
Fri June 23
The LASpot presents: Magnum X Friday
11:00 pm - 5:00 am
(see details under Fri June 2)
Sun June 25
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under June 4)
Tues June 27
The LASpot presents: Magnum X Tuesday
9:00 pm - 2:00 am
(see details under June 6)
Thurs June 29
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under June 1)
Fri June 30
The LASpot presents: Magnum X Friday
11:00 pm - 5:00 am
(see details under Fri June 2)
JULY 2023
AUGUST 2023
Aug 21-28
CMEN West Coast Gathering
www.cmen.org/west-coast
Varying prices depending on length of stay and type of accommodation. $30-$999. Details on their website.
For over 20 years, hundreds of men gather for this annual naked event. The Malibu camp where this was held for two decades was lost in wildfires a few years ago, so they have relocated to a camp 80 miles east of Los Angeles. Heated swimming pool, heated dormitory-style cabins, tent sites, modern restrooms and hot showers, and miles of hiking trails. The gathering features a variety of workshops, numerous seminars, aerobics, hiking, massage, playshops, other activities, and of course, just being with over 300 friendly, naked men! Also popular are the daily themed social hours. The West Coast Gatherings also feature at least two shows each evening, including game shows, talent shows, and special performances. The Miss CMEN Queen contest and the Mr. Leather CMEN contest, which determines CMEN’s candidate for International Mr. Leather (IML). After the evening shows, activities include dancing most nights, night swimming in the pool, night hikes, movies, cards, bingo and late night workshops.
- Webmaster's note: this is NOT a clothing-optional event. CMEN emphasizes that this is indeed a naked gathering.
- Indeed, proof of COVID vaccination and at least oner COVID booster are required to attend.
- You can go for a day, the entire week, or customize your stay length. See their website for more info.