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News & Highlights...
- Lax Jacks (jack off club) has added 4 new May dates!
- SoCal GroupTime is down to their FINAL few parties, so catch one before they're gone! May 16 and June 7.
- Drain Your Nut is having a quadruple-header weekend May 16-18!
- Team Pig's Puerco de Mayo Say May 17
- KinkWareApparel.com graphic tees. Wear your kink for all to see!
Notice...
None of the events listed anywhere on this website are MenPlayLA's events. MenPlayLA does not organize, plan or work for these events, nor invite anyone to any of them. They are listed here as a convenience to you. MenPlayLA does not tolerate or post events promoting or engaging in prostitution, sex trafficking, illegal drug use, or any other illegal activity. If you suspect or know that any of the events on this page promote or engage in these or any other illegal activity, please notify immediately to MenPlayLA@hotmail.com. The hosts/organizers of these events are solely responsible for the content provided in their listings and for the events themselves and for their venues. MenPlayLA urges you to stay safe, alert, sane and sober at any party. Leave an event if you are not comfortable or if something doesn't seem right. Please see the Attending an All-Male Party tab for more about this and the Your Health & Safety tab to find community resources that can help you.
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The Calendar
Previous events are deleted periodically.
MAY 2025
Thurs May 1
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
Seven Seven Three Five Densmore Ave. Van Nuys Upstairs in the white and green stripe building.
$20 cash only. Students 18+ with ID $10.
Mmupp.weebly.com
Our events are open to men of all ages, shapes and sizes. It is a mixed crowd, everyone is welcome! Free clothes check. Free snacks and drinks. (No alcohol). Enjoy a relaxed no pressure situation, & meet up other like-minded people. Plenty of safe parking available. We hope to see you at the private party!
Fri May 2
SoCalGroupTime Presents: Silverlake Friday Evening Load Exchange!
7:00 pm - 9:30 pm
socalgrouptime.com/event/fridaysilverlake/
Email: admin@socalgrouptime.com
Friday evening group for some hardcore play - DL, curious and gay men looking for a good time with like-minded guys. Space is limited - there is a porn room and a playroom, and always a good vibe... Sling, bed, premium lubes, music, porn, bottled water, snacks, and small clean-up towels are provided. Super easy parking and access to the house. Always a friendly and growing crowd. Space is limited to 25 guys, so RSVP before it's full.
No entry after 8:30pm - No exceptions!
Fri May 2
CumPlayLA
8:00 pm – 1:00 am
Sanctuary Studios new location: 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles. Street Parking
Tiokets: cumplayla.com/events
$30 Online for Members
$35 for Non-Members (Cash or Card at door are ok)
This is a great, fun, no attitude party! Feel the beats while you slide into the large rooms and enjoy the event. Be sure to arrive early for all the hot action. This is an 18+ Event! ID required to enter. Entry includes free clothes check and gives you access to multiple large play rooms.
Fri May 2
The Lair's Freaky Friday
8:00 pm - midnight
Canoga Park
Donation: $20 (Special student discount available). Pay at the door: cash, Venmo, Zelle, or CashApp.
Email: TheLairPlayground@gmail.com
IG: The_Lair_Playground
Guys! The hottest new party in town is twice a week and getting it on in Canoga Park! Hang with guys 18 yo to 55 yo. All types from twinks, jocks, bear, muscle and dads are welcome! Condoms, lube, and snacks provided. Free clothes check - larger lockers for rent. Come get down in a 1,500 square foot warehouse space and fuck to the beats of Dance/Top 40/House/Rave. Street parking only! Please be respectful of our business neighbors - exercise discretion when arriving and leaving event. Email us for address and password.
Sat May 3
Moonburn All-Male Spank Party
Noon - 5:00 pm
New Location: Sanctuary Studios 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles. Street Parking
$15
email for more info: lamoonburn@aol.com
RSVP encouraged (but not required) at Sanctuary's website: sanctuarylax.com
The Moonburn Assn. has been having M/M spank parties for more than 25 years on the first Saturday of every month! We usually have more than 50 guys show up - guys of all ages, sizes, backgrounds, sexual orientations and levels of experience. Some come to spank, some come to get spanked, some come to watch and some come to meet other guys to arrange private sessions. Soft drinks, water, snacks served. Street parking only.
Sun May 4
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Seven Seven Three Five Densmore Ave. Van Nuys upstairs in the white and green stripe building.
$20 cash only. Students 18+ with ID $10.
Mmupp.weebly.com
Our events are open to men of all ages, shapes and sizes. It is a mixed crowd, everyone is welcome! Free clothes check. Free snacks and drinks. (No alcohol). Enjoy a relaxed no pressure situation, & meet up other like-minded people. Plenty of safe parking available. We hope to see you at the private party!
Wed May 7
The Lair's Happy Humpday Happy Hours
5:00 - 8:00 pm
Canoga Park
Donation: $20 (Special student discount available). Pay at the door: cash, Venmo, Zelle, or CashApp.
Email: TheLairPlayground@gmail.com
IG: The_Lair_Playground
Guys! The hottest new party in town is twice a week and getting it on in Canoga Park! Hang with guys 18 yo to 55 yo. All types from twinks, jocks, bear, muscle and dads are welcome! Condoms, lube, and snacks provided. Free clothes check - larger lockers for rent. Come get down in a 1,500 square foot warehouse space and fuck to the beats of Dance/Top 40/House/Rave. Street parking only! Please be respectful of our business neighbors - exercise discretion when arriving and leaving event. Email us for address and password.
Thurs May 8
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(See details under May 1)
Fri May 9
The Lair's Freaky Friday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under May 2)
Sun May 11
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under May 4)
Wed May 14
SoCalGroupTime Presents: FINAL Pomona Men's Group - Lunch and Evening Groups
12:00pm-3:00pm & 6:00pm-9:00pm
socalgrouptime.com/event/final-pomona-wednesday-may-14th/
Email: admin@socalgrouptime.com
The final Pomona group for DL, curious and gay men looking for a good time with like-minded guys. There are multiple porn and playrooms and a good vibe... Premium lubes, music, porn, bottled water, snacks, and small clean-up towels are provided. Super easy parking and access to the house. Always a friendly and growing crowd. Space is limited to 25 guys so be sure to RSVP before it's full. Two final groups - lunch and evening!
Wed May 14
The Lair's Happy Humpday Happy Hours
5:00 - 8:00 pm
(see details under May 7)
Thurs May 15
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(See details under May 1)
Fri May 16
SoCalGroupTime Presents: Silverlake Friday Evening Load Exchange!
7:00pm-9:30pm
socalgrouptime.com/event/silverlakefriday-may-16/
Email: admin@socalgrouptime.com
Friday evening group for some hardcore play - DL, curious and gay men looking for a good time with like-minded guys. Space is limited - there is a porn room and a playroom, and always a good vibe... Sling, bed, premium lubes, music, porn, bottled water, snacks, and small clean-up towels are provided. Super easy parking and access to the house. Always a friendly and growing crowd. Space is limited to 25 guys, so RSVP before it's full. No entry after 8:30pm - No exceptions!
Fri May 16
The Lair's Freaky Friday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under May 2)
Fri May 16
Drain Your Nut Presents: Mouth Stuff
8:00pm - 11:00pm
Duarte, CA
Tickets and info: www.drainyournut.com
$25 early bird tickets (limited), $35 regular ticket
If you're got an ORAL FIXATION come to the warehouse in Duarte for a night of side play. Makeout, stroke, and suck...anything but fucking butt. Use our couches, padded floor, beds and gloryholes to connect with and get off with other guys. This is a group for the orally obsessed to suck and milk each other to completion. Open wide! No PNP, No Alcohol. You will not be let in if you are high or drunk, no exceptions.Poppers OK.
Sat May 17
Drain Your Nut : Two Events
Day Group 3:00 pm - 6:00 pm
Night Group 8:00 pm - 11:00pm
Duarte, CA (2 minutes from the 210 freeway)
Tickets and more info: www.drainyournut.com $25 early bird tickets (limited), $35 regular ticket, $50 double header ticket, $60 weekend pass
Drain Your Nut is a pop-up FUCKFEST that takes place in unique spaces in Southern California and attracts hot and horny guys who like fuck in a group setting with NO PNP. Multiple playrooms plus a big warehouse space with slings and glory holes. Projected porn, large play mattresses, fuck benches. Clothes check, bottled water, snacks, premium lubes, rubbers (for those who use them), and small clean-up towels provided. Easily accessible location for guys in the SFV, SGV and Inland Empire areas. Only 30 minutes from downtown LA. Free and easy parking on site. No PNP, No Alcohol. You will not be let in if you are high or drunk, no exceptions. Poppers OK.
DAY GROUP
A perfect spot for married/bi/DL & bear guys who enjoy fucking around with other men. First timers encouraged. All types are welcome at the fuckfest. Laid back vibe, casual daytime event for HORNY dudes looking to fuck.
NIGHT GROUP
Get piggy at this warehouse fuck party where leather & fetish gear is encouraged and sluts are celebrated. Slings, fuck benches, porn, and tons of horny guys ready for hot and sweaty group play. Gangbang orgy in an industrial warehouse.
Sat May 17
Team Pig's Puerco de Mayo
3:00 pm - 10:00 pm
Silver Lake
$40
Tickets: $40 online only at party.teampig.us
No tickets at the door. You MUST purchase in advance online.
21 and older. MEN ONLY. Wristband for re-entry and clothes check. FREE food, drinks, and snacks. Full bar with bartenders. Social area, dungeon and mazes – slings – benches – glory holes – multiple themed play areas. Usually 400+ men attend – be prepared for a crowd.
- Webmaster's notes: street parking on weekends in Silver Lake is very challenging. Take Uber/Lyft or be prepared to spend a half hour looking for parking then walking a mile. I'm serious.
- You must register on their site and THEN buy your ticket.
- Team Pig parties are as much fun for socializing and making new friends as they are for fucking.
Sun May 18
Drain Your Nut - Bator Group
2:00 pm - 5:00 pm
Duarte, CA (2 minutes from the 210 freeway)
$25
Tickets and info: www.drainyournut.com
This is a group for bators: guys who like to stroke their cocks with other guys and bond as they build up intense sexual energy. No fucking allowed, this is for solo bating, or mutual touch, body contact. Bond with other guys while your cocks throb and you enjoy an extended bating session. Poppers OK. No Alcohol. No PNP. Free clothes check, plus premium lube, projected bator porn, clean up towels, and bottled water provided.
Sun May 18
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under May 4)
Sun May 18
LAX Jacks
5:00 pm - 7:30 pm
Downtown Los Angeles
$20-$35 depending on membership. Payment by Venmo or cash at the door
LAXJacks.com
LAX Jacks is Los Angeles' largest and longest running masturbation club for men. The event is hosted in a sexy, beautifully designed warehouse studio with low LED lighting, leather sofas, beds, a sling, a glory hole wall and projectors and TV's playing porn. Snack and refreshments are included and most events host between 40-60 guys.
Sun May 18
Red Hanky Club (fisting)
5:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Sanctuary Studios 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles. Street Parking
Tickets $30 + $4.97 fee
redhankyclub.com
Email info@redhankyclub.com
Red Hanky Club meets the third Sunday each month. Bring your toys and lube and we’ll supply refreshments, slings, fuck benches and a great environment to play with your fellow pigs! A shower for touch-ups only is on site if you bring a towel and shower wand.
Wed May 21
The Lair's Happy Humpday Happy Hours
5:00 - 8:00 pm
(see details under May 7)
Thurs May 22
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(See details under May 1)
Fri May 23
The Lair's Freaky Friday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under May 2)
Fri May 23
SoCa Bondage Club Play Party
9:00 pm - 2:00 am
910 N La Cienega Blvd, Los Angeles
$20 for members of SoCal Men's Bondage, $25 for Non-Members
www.SoCaBondage.com
Email: socabc@gmail.com
We have monthly BDSM parties with all kinds of kink. Tie up a hot guy and do whatever you want with him, as long it is safe, sane and consensual! We provide a safe space to explore your fantasies. All limits are respected. We still encourage sex to be part of a BDSM scene, and safer sex is strongly encouraged to prevent the spread of STD's.
Sun May 25
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under May 4)
Sun May 25
LAX Jacks
5:00 pm - 7:30 pm
(see details under May 18)
Tues May 27
LAX Jacks
7:00 pm - 9:30 pm
(see details under May 18)
Wed May 28
The Lair's Happy Humpday Happy Hours
5:00 - 8:00 pm
(see details under May 7)
Thurs May 29
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(See details under May 1)
Fri May 30
LAX Jacks Lunch Meet $20 Cum N Go
10:00 noon - 2:00 pm
(see details under May 18)
Fri May 30
The Lair's Freaky Friday
8:00 pm - midnight
(see details under May 2)
JUNE 2025
Sun June 1
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Seven Seven Three Five Densmore Ave. Van Nuys upstairs in the white and green stripe building.
$20 cash only. Students 18+ with ID $10.
Mmupp.weebly.com
Our events are open to men of all ages, shapes and sizes. It is a mixed crowd, everyone is welcome! Free clothes check. Free snacks and drinks. (No alcohol). Enjoy a relaxed no pressure situation, & meet up other like-minded people. Plenty of safe parking available. We hope to see you at the private party!
Wed June 4
The Lair's Happy Humpday Happy Hours
5:00 - 8:00 pm
Canoga Park
Donation: $20 (Special student discount available). Pay at the door: cash, Venmo, Zelle, or CashApp.
Email: TheLairPlayground@gmail.com
IG: The_Lair_Playground
Guys! The hottest new party in town is twice a week and getting it on in Canoga Park! Hang with guys 18 yo to 55 yo. All types from twinks, jocks, bear, muscle and dads are welcome! Condoms, lube, and snacks provided. Free clothes check - larger lockers for rent. Come get down in a 1,500 square foot warehouse space and fuck to the beats of Dance/Top 40/House/Rave. Street parking only! Please be respectful of our business neighbors - exercise discretion when arriving and leaving event. Email us for address and password.
Thurs June 5
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
Seven Seven Three Five Densmore Ave. Van Nuys Upstairs in the white and green stripe building.
$20 cash only. Students 18+ with ID $10.
Mmupp.weebly.com
Our events are open to men of all ages, shapes and sizes. It is a mixed crowd, everyone is welcome! Free clothes check. Free snacks and drinks. (No alcohol). Enjoy a relaxed no pressure situation, & meet up other like-minded people. Plenty of safe parking available. We hope to see you at the private party!
Sat June 7
Moonburn All-Male Spank Party
Noon - 5:00 pm
New Location: Sanctuary Studios 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles. Street Parking
$15
email for more info: lamoonburn@aol.com
RSVP encouraged (but not required) at Sanctuary's website: sanctuarylax.com
The Moonburn Assn. has been having M/M spank parties for more than 25 years on the first Saturday of every month! We usually have more than 50 guys show up - guys of all ages, sizes, backgrounds, sexual orientations and levels of experience. Some come to spank, some come to get spanked, some come to watch and some come to meet other guys to arrange private sessions. Soft drinks, water, snacks served. Street parking only.
Sat June 7
SoCalGroupTime Presents: FINAL West Covina/Walnut Men's Group - Saturday Afternoon
2:00 pm - 6:00 pm
socalgrouptime.com/event/final-westcovina/
Email: admin@socalgrouptime.com
Very popular group! Saturday afternoon group for DL, curious and gay men looking for a good time with like-minded guys. There are 2 main porn and playrooms and a good vibe is promised... Dark room, fuck tables, sling room, and more...Premium lubes, music, porn, bottled water, and small clean-up towels are provided. This group is mild to wild, but please come to play and not stand around waiting for action - you guys make the action happen! Clothes MUST be checked, with no exceptions. Super easy parking and access to the house. An outside area is available for socializing but all play must be inside the home. Space is limited guys so be sure to RSVP before it's full - this is the LAST EVER W. Covina group. Doors close at 5:00pm - no exceptions!
Sun June 8
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under June 1)
Wed June 11
The Lair's Happy Humpday Happy Hours
5:00 - 8:00 pm
(see details under June 4)
Thurs June 12
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(See details under June 5)
Sun June 15
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under June 1)
Sun June 15
Red Hanky Club (fisting)
5:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Sanctuary Studios 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles. Street Parking
Tickets $30 + $4.97 fee
redhankyclub.com
Email info@redhankyclub.com
Red Hanky Club meets the third Sunday each month. Bring your toys and lube and we’ll supply refreshments, slings, fuck benches and a great environment to play with your fellow pigs! A shower for touch-ups only is on site if you bring a towel and shower wand.
Wed June 18
The Lair's Happy Humpday Happy Hours
5:00 - 8:00 pm
(see details under May 7)
Thurs June 19
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(See details under June 5)
Sun June 22
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under June 1)
Wed June 25
The Lair's Happy Humpday Happy Hours
5:00 - 8:00 pm
(see details under May 7)
Thurs June 26
Throbbing Thursday
8:00 pm - midnight
(See details under June 5)
Sun June 29
Men's Meat Up Play Party
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
(see details under June 1)
JULY 2025
Sat July 5
Moonburn All-Male Spank Party
Noon - 5:00 pm
New Location: Sanctuary Studios 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles. Street Parking
$15
email for more info: lamoonburn@aol.com
RSVP encouraged (but not required) at Sanctuary's website: sanctuarylax.com
The Moonburn Assn. has been having M/M spank parties for more than 25 years on the first Saturday of every month! We usually have more than 50 guys show up - guys of all ages, sizes, backgrounds, sexual orientations and levels of experience. Some come to spank, some come to get spanked, some come to watch and some come to meet other guys to arrange private sessions. Soft drinks, water, snacks served. Street parking only.
AUGUST 2025
Aug 18-25
CMEN West Coast Gathering
Summer Camp for Nude Men
cmen.regfox.com/cmen-southern-california-gathering-2025
Varying prices depending on length of stay and type of accommodation.
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